Greetings to All!
Just a bit more than 2 weeks away and we’ll be sitting at the Seder. And what do we do there? We ask questions!!
Four that are written in the Haggadah and more and more that we are encouraged to ask throughout the night.
And why am I telling you this?? Because this month’s tool is the
The question mark is an additional tool that can help us communicate
constructively so that we spend more time in the Circle of Love
than in the Circle of Hurt.
Rather than thinking that we KNOW why he said what he said, rather than BEING SURE that we know why she did what she did, rather than immediately reacting, how about ASKING?
“Can I ask you, what did you mean by…?”
“What did you have in mind when you…?”
“How come …?”
Ask nicely. Ask from a place of genuine curiosity. Don’t assume anything, you’ll probably be surprised!
Stop and think.
And this is it for today. I'd love to hear your comments! And your questions!!
Remember, we can have Gan Eden if we work for it and care for it by getting into the right HABITS!
All the best,